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WOBBLE WARNING:  No, I’m not talking about the “miracle little” today.  There is absolutely 0% chance that I will ever become “p.”  (Stop right there, those who might be thinking…

WOBBLE WARNING:  In this blog, I talk about my 18-year infertility/childless journey, including grief, healing, acceptance, embracing, redefining, and more…  I believe you will feel empowered by the end.  But…

SENSITIVE POST WITH A WOBBLE WARNING:  In this post, I talk about memories and grief and mortality and aging without children and infertility, all from the perspective of a childless…

SENSITIVE POST WITH POSSIBLE TRIGGERS:  Real, honest, raw talk about back-to-school photos from the perspective of someone in the midst of her journey AND from my perspective, as a forever…

SENSITIVE POST WITH POSSIBLE TRIGGERS:  In this post, I talk openly and honestly about a piece of furniture that was supposed to be used in our nursery.  There is detailed…

SENSITIVE POST WITH POSSIBLE TRIGGERS… Ultimately, I pray this post leaves you empowered and uplifted.  But the road to get there is likely to be bumpy, with some pain and…

SENSITIVE POST:  Discussion of a tenuous relationship with a person who has made insensitive comments about my infertility & childlessness; mention of Christmas and the holidays; has the potential to…

If you are a regular here at Not So Mommy…, then you know who Bruna is.  I talk about our exchange daughter often and share about our hosting experience, plus…

When I started Not So Mommy…, I had two major goals.  One, make sure that no one else suffered the isolation of an infertility battle and being childless not by…

Trigger Warning:  Talk of littles and memories, dark days and grief… At the beginning of the month, I challenged us to not simply survive May, but to thrive this month…