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Wobble Warning:  As you can probably tell from the title, “Childless does not equal selfish,” I’ll be discussing how the world sometimes views we childless/childfree in a negative way.  Today,…

I don’t know what kind of warning this post needs.  I’m not even sure it needs a warning.  (Though I do talk about infertility & childlessness…)  I normally try not…

Wobble Warning:  Many of the people I met through the Night of Hope are in the midst of parenting after infertility.  I mention this, as well as a speaking engagement…

Wobble Warning:  In this post, I speak openly, honestly, brutally about HUGE unexpected wobbles I had after the Night of Hope.  As always, my goal is to leave you feeling…

Wobble Warning:  Fabulous one, I truly believe that you will find much of this blog quite empowering.  Because I do not know where you are on your journey, I’m not…

Wobble Warning:  During this post, I speak candidly about the childless not by choice journey, plus the grief & wobbles that accompany it.  I use “going to a little’s party”…

WOBBLE WARNING:  No, I’m not talking about the “miracle little” today.  There is absolutely 0% chance that I will ever become “p.”  (Stop right there, those who might be thinking…

WOBBLE WARNING:  We’re talking about “weird wobbles” today.  I’m not sure if anything in this post will cause you to wobble.  I talk about my best friend who passed away. …

Wobble Warning:  During these childless ramblings, I speak candidly about the world’s messages of family and kids and happiness.  I discuss hoping to have kids, treatment, adoption, and childlessness.  As…

I’ve been pretty quiet here at Not So Mommy… for the past few weeks.  I skipped writing a couple of blogs.  And I haven’t posted on social media for days. …