In 2014, I began to embrace my infertility and fully accept that my husband and I would never have a two-legged kid. We were not going to pursue more infertility treatments nor were we going to adopt a child. Because of this, I had to redefine what my life was going to look like. I wanted to be a mom—desperately. So, I also had to redefine what being a “mom” meant to me.
It’s Good to be a Dog Mom
This “redefining” caused me to completely embrace my role as a Dog Mom. Valentine and Prancer were our kids and I loved them (still do) with my entire heart. I did not think we could spoil any puppy more than we had spoiled them. Until Maddie…
My Dog Mom role has gone into overdrive since we adopted Maddie. While Valentine and Prancer got presents at
Christmas, Maddie gets them at Christmas, on her birthday, for Easter…. I decided that if I wasn’t going to be able to make a stocking or an Easter basket for a two-legged kid, then I would make them for my fur baby!
Maddie has a lunchbox, a monogrammed backpack, and a special toy that she sleeps with. I post pictures of her on social media, keep Mammo updated about how she feels, and proudly rock a “Dog Mom” sticker on the back of my car.
Heck, she’s even named “Maddie” (short for Madalynne) because that’s what we had decided to name our little girl. Just so happens our little one ended up being furry. (You can read more about Maddie’s name here.)
While not everyone understands my loving obsession with my four-legged daughter, I have discovered some that do since I started Not So Mommy…™
My Favorite Dog Mom Blog
Dog Mom Days– Amanda is a fellow dog mom and pet blogger. Her son, Wynston, is a doggie model and I absolutely love seeing his adorable face come across my newsfeed! She posts product reviews, DIY crafts & treats, and updates about her adventures on her blogsite.
Not So Mommy…™ Dog Mom Blog
After finding Dog Mom Days, I was affirmed that my Dog Mom role to my four-legged fur baby is embraced by others as well. On Not So Mommy…™, I introduce Maddie, share Dog Mom Reviews, and talk about my life as a Dog Mom. Perhaps most importantly for me, I discuss how being a Dog Mom has helped me accept my infertility, while allowing me to fulfill my dream of being a mom.
I hope you’ll Join the Community & enjoy getting to know my non-traditional family! Visit and comment often because I’d love to get to know you and yours as well!
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2 comments
I too could never have my own children and it has been a terrible heartache for me. My husband and i have always had our dogs, and we love them with every beat of our hearts. But i still to this day grieve that we could never have any. We have been married for almost 40 years and i do put all of my love into my precious dog Riley. He is my best friend and when i was going through the worst time of my life with cancer, he always brought me joy. It is so hard when you see other people with their wonderful families. my sister passed away and not long after her , we lost her son. so i do not have much family left. And it is really really hard to feel so all alone in this world. When i found out i had cancer the doctors said i would die in 3 months. they said it was one of the rarest cancers in the world. And that no one has ever survived it we were devastated. Long story short it has been 8 years and so far i have beaten all of the odds!! Thank you for your story it really helps to know we are not alone in this. Bless you.
Renee, thank you for sharing a bit of your story with us. I am so sorry for your struggles and your losses. I am elated that you have beaten the odds with cancer! That is truly wonderful. And I am grateful that you have your fur baby and felt a bit less alone reading about my Dog Mom Life. Sending you loads of hugs… Despite the circumstances, I am grateful that you are here.