Comments Policy

by Brandi Lytle

Not So Mommy…™ Comments Policy

Life is hard enough without the fear of judgment.  So, when commenting, please:

  • Be real, not rude.
  • Use authentic, compassionate words.
  • Remember that just because you don’t agree with something (or someone) doesn’t mean you need to tell everyone about it.
  • Be respectful of me, yourself, and other Not So Mommy…™ community members.

If we are honest, we are all trying to define (or redefine) our path—what exactly makes up our “…”  Personally, I am boldly sharing how I came through my infertility struggle and redefined what being a “mom” means to me.  Just because you may not agree with my definition does not mean you need to criticize.  I want to hear your comments and feedback!  But I also want Not So Mommy…™ to be a safe place for everyone (including me) to be her authentic self without fear of judgment.  Remember, I am a person with feelings, as is everyone who comments on my blogs.  Let’s use our words to build each other up!

In legalize, the administrators of Not So Mommy…™ have the right to edit, delete, and/or block any inappropriate or unnecessary comments on this blog, as they see fit.

Life can be messy and very hard.  I’m not a counselor, but I can lend a friendly ear.  If you have something you want to talk about privately, please email me at

“Therefore, encourage and build one another up, ….”

1 Thessalonians 5:11


Updated 8 August 2017