Brandi Lytle

Possible Triggers:  Mention of “M” Day, Dad’s Day, two-legged kids, and expectations… It seems that May is for Moms.  And June is for Dads.  But do you know who July…

POSSIBLE TRIGGERS: Open and honest discussion about infertility, childlessness, grief, holidays, perspectives, and more… Infertility and childlessness affect men, too.  In fact, research shows that 30% of infertility is due…

Including a Review of Winnie’s Picks, plus some musings about the childless journey… The very first blog post I wrote this year was about self-care and self-love.  (You can read…

SENSITIVE POST WITH POSSIBLE TRIGGERS:  Discussion of infertility battle, letting go, grief, Dad’s Day, and more…  If you are feeling particularly vulnerable, you may not want to read.  I shed…

SENSITIVE POST WITH POSSIBLE TRIGGERS:  Triggers are not necessarily due to childlessness, but to the state of the world.  My emotions have been raw lately.  And this blog…  Well, it’s…

Luckily, home is where our hearts are.  Because during our 19 ½ year marriage, my hubby and I have lived in 8 different homes in 2 different states.  Now, I…

You may have noticed a new image near the bottom of the Not So Mommy… sidebar, which states, “I am a proud PLICA Ambassador!”  PLICA, founded by S.K. Reid (author…

SENSITIVE POST WITH POSSIBLE TRIGGERS:  In this post, I talk openly and honestly about a piece of furniture that was supposed to be used in our nursery.  There is detailed…

SENSITIVE POST WITH POSSIBLE TRIGGERS… Ultimately, I pray this post leaves you empowered and uplifted.  But the road to get there is likely to be bumpy, with some pain and…

SENSITIVE POST WITH POSSIBLE TRIGGERS:  Detailed discussion of littles’ names, going back to before we knew we were infertile, plus mention of “p,” infertility treatments, and more… If you are…