Some people think I’m weak.  They think that deciding to live a childless life, deciding not to have a baby after trying for ten years, deciding to stay with my…

Travels, trips, vacations, holidays.  No matter what you call it, one of the bright sides of a childless life is the ability to get out of town whenever you like! …

Trigger Warning:  The title says it all.  If you are up to it, let’s talk about Mother’s Day . . . Even after embracing infertility, accepting a childless not by…

Although I believe in looking at things with a different perspective and finding the bright sides of infertility and a childless life, there are moments when this positive outlook simply…

As told to Brandi Lytle With Mother’s Day near, I think it fitting to share the story of fellow childless not by choice warrior, Karen.  She and her husband, Erik,…

While scrolling through Facebook, an adorable puppy pic caught my eye.  Of course, I stopped to read the post and discovered that Dog Mom’s Day is May 12!  And I…

When I began Not So Mommy…, I had several goals.  One of them was to let others know about hosting a foreign exchange student because it has become such a…

Sponsored Post – I absolutely love helping the childless not by choice community.  Since I do have bills to pay, however, I must begin to monetize my blog.  So, I…

With May on the horizon, a very difficult time of year is approaching for we childless not by choice.  Mother’s Day.  A day that triggers deep emotion, pain, sadness, and…

I recently met someone who is struggling hard with her infertility.  She told me that she just can’t understand why God put this desire for children in her heart if…